Written by “How are you?” “I’m fine.” Ah yes. The famous female response. Three tiny words that can mean anything from “I’m genuinely okay” to “If one more person asks me for something, I may move to another country.” Sometimes you’re not fine. You’re just functioning. And there’s a difference. So before you dramatically announce that you … Continue reading “The “I’m Fine” Checklist: Things You Might Actually Need Instead”
Everyone tells you to take care of yourself. “Set boundaries!” “Make time for yourself!” “Learn to say no!” Sounds lovely. Until you actually do it. Because apparently the moment you start taking care of yourself, several people in your life develop a sudden and mysterious condition called: “But why can’t you?” You say no to … Continue reading “Things Nobody Warned You About When You Started Taking Care of Yourself”
There comes a point in every woman’s life when she realises she has absolutely no idea what she’s doing. Not in a dramatic, existential-crisis kind of way. Just… How long does cooked chicken last in the fridge? And suddenly you’re standing in front of the refrigerator at 9:43 p.m., Googling food safety like you’re about … Continue reading “Nobody Told Us Adulthood Would Mostly Be Googling Things”
Have you ever had one of those days where you look at everything you’ve done and somehow decide it wasn’t enough? You answered the emails.You got through work.You cleaned something. Maybe.You helped someone.You made dinner.You remembered an appointment that you’d almost forgotten. And yet, when your head hits the pillow, there’s that little voice saying: … Continue reading “You Don’t Have to Earn Your Worth”